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I Wanted a Soft Life—But I Had to Build It First
Let’s be honest.I wanted the soft life.I wanted peace.I wanted margin.I wanted slow mornings with coffee and clarity—not chaos and...

Shelby Davis
Jun 262 min read


Stability, Systems & Giving Myself Grace
Alright, here’s the truth: I’ve been a mom for almost three years, a wife even longer, and I just now feel like I’m finally getting my...

Shelby Davis
Jun 193 min read


Be FR FR: Choosing Discipline Over Desire
Choosing Discipline Over Desire Be FR FR—discipline is hard. Every day, I find myself battling between what I want to do and what I know...

Shelby Davis
Jun 122 min read


Yes, Be Careful What You Share—But Don’t Silence Who You Are
A follow-up to “Is Venting Hurting Your Marriage?” A few weeks ago, I wrote about venting—and how, when we’re not careful, it can quietly...

Shelby Davis
Jun 52 min read


Is Venting Harming Your Marriage and Reputation When Emotions Run High
In the whirlwind of relationships, expressing feelings often takes the form of venting. It's natural to seek support from friends during...

Shelby Davis
May 284 min read
Becoming the Mom I Was Meant to Be
I used to think motherhood was taking away from me—my freedom, my independence, my ability to do things for myself. I felt like I had to...

Shelby Davis
Mar 93 min read


When You’re the Support System, But Who’s Supporting You?
I had a moment recently, one of those gut-check realizations that make you pause and say, “WAIT? how did I get here?”. I’ve always been...

Shelby Davis
Feb 192 min read


How To Pour Into Yourself Like A Plant
I have learned so much on my journey to finding me, which is an on going journey, but I’d like to correlate the process of planting a...

Shelby Davis
May 24, 20243 min read


Advocating For Your Passions As A Mom
1. Be Prepared To Ask For What You Want When advocating for yourself, it's important to know what you want or at least a general idea of...

Shelby Davis
Jan 3, 20244 min read


BALANCING MOMMY LIFE & ENTREPRENEURSHIP
It's been almost 2 years as a mother & entrepreneur, so I have some skin in the game lol. The balancing of so many different parts of...

Shelby Davis
Dec 10, 20234 min read
Tips For New Moms [ From A New Mom ]
Number one being, ask for professional/ mental health help. I’ve literally did it myself, and I went in, not even knowing what I needed...

Shelby Davis
Dec 8, 20231 min read
Allowing Yourself To Shine
Are you dimming your light, talents, and skills ? Tbh I’ve always been shy about being the it girl or fully grasped the it girl mentality...

Shelby Davis
Mar 16, 20224 min read


Doing It Afraid
I’m the type of person that loves me a plan lol which is good for the most part but I have also realized that Gods plan is always better...

Shelby Davis
Feb 25, 20224 min read


Taking Accountability For My Circumstances
It’s so easy to blame everyone else for the circumstances we are in. But the truth is we ourselves also need to take responsibility for...

Shelby Davis
Feb 14, 20222 min read


We Got A New Place !
Okay so life update ! Robert & I moved into our new apartment ! Won‘t God do it. We originally were going to move into another complex...

Shelby Davis
Jan 21, 20221 min read


6 Things To Consider When Feeling Judged
by Shelby Davis It is challenging to be your authentic self, when you feel constantly judged and as though you have to live up to...

Shelby Davis
Jan 11, 20223 min read


6 Ways To Stop People Pleasing
1. Be Honest With Yourself & Others I had a huge slap in the face when I graduated college and had NO IDEA what in the world I wanted to...

Shelby Davis
Jan 7, 20224 min read


What I Wore For New Years
Happy New Year ! I pray your New Years was peaceful and safe! I spent New Years in ATL with Robert & my folks. It was a relaxing New...

Shelby Davis
Jan 4, 20221 min read


Lessons I Learned In 2021
As the year 2021 is coming to an end, I'd like to gather the lessons I've learned this year. In no particular order, these lessons are...

Shelby Davis
Dec 31, 20216 min read


Becoming Her
Becoming her is an ongoing process, I've learned. One thing I won't do is act like I have my life completely figured out. That being...

Shelby Davis
Dec 21, 20213 min read
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